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Apples, Cool Whip containers, and Love

September 1, 2010

I don’t know how to start this post.  So let me tell you a little about them.  They met at BYU orientation on the first day.  And they said it was pretty hot from the beginning.  No “let’s just be friends.”  He said he was instantly attracted to her long legs and long, silky hair.  The rest is history.  They married, had 8 fabulous children (my mother included), and owned an apple orchard.  My grandma said she didn’t know what to think when her husband moved them to an old army barracks.  But that is where they lived and made their life.  Their beautiful, wonderful life.

I remember visiting them and going into their pantry to find two gloves that were about my size.  Inevitably they were mismatched, but I counted myself lucky if I had at least one that was pink.  We would then put on our jackets and go out into the back of their house into a large building where sorting apples took place.  I would stand on a stool so I could see, and would watch as apples went by on a conveyor belt, picking out the bad ones.  All the family went out to help on these days.  Someone would be folding boxes, someone would be driving a fork lift, someone would be weighing, and the kids did a lot of sorting.  It would be cold, my hands would be frozen despite the gloves, but the smell of apples permeated my nose and filled my chest.  I loved it.  I still have lotion to this day that smells of apples.  Just so I can close my eyes and remember those moments.

Since those days, the orchard has been sold, my grandparents have moved down the street into a beautiful new home, and the “orchard” has become a town.  My family bought our own land and built a home on it about 10 years ago.  We live in the orchard.  And during my last visit I knew I wanted to do a photoshoot with my grandparents.  To capture those tender moments that I grew up seeing between them.  The stolen glances and quick little kisses.  The smiles and laughs.

So after many visits to Utah, and seeing my grandparents without my camera in tow, I decided it was time to stop procrastinating.  I did that once with my great-Grandma Gwen, and knew I could not do it again.

My mom and I went over early to help my grandma get ready.  (My grandpa was still gone golfing, of course.)  She got some new clothes for her birthday not too long ago, but didn’t like the bright colors.  She said the camera would see her shirt, not her face.  Looking in her closet we pulled out a few shirts that looked nice, but once my mom held up he pink shirt I knew it was “the one”.  The one that I always envision her wearing.  While my mom was helping my grandma curl her hair and get ready, I saw her jewelry box sitting on her dresser and had to grab my camera for a few shots. 

Once my grandpa got home, he quickly combed his hair, changed out of his shorts, and was ready to go.  We almost left the house with him wearing his sandals with white socks.  Luckily I caught the fashion faux pas before we left the house.

Being away from home, with my props all left behind, I wasn’t sure what I was going to have my grandparents sit on.  My mom knew a lady, so we went over to her house and picked up some chairs.  Chairs from around 1820, to be exact.  Worth between $200-$500 each.  We were careful, but I was stressed.  But they worked perfectly!  And studying them was fascinating.  How everything was so intricately carved, though not exactly perfect.  Beautiful.

My favorite:

For my last image I told my grandparents to hold hands.  But they grabbed onto each other with both hands.  Just like their marriage.  They’ve held onto each other through all those years with everything they had–never letting go.  My grandma wondered why anyone would want to photograph her hands.  Who wouldn’t want to photograph those hands?

So thank you to my grandma and grandpa for letting me photograph you.  For letting me help sort apples, drive the four wheeler, and for all those movie nights, with popcorn served in old, washed out, cool whip containers.  I love you!

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17 Responses to “Apples, Cool Whip containers, and Love”

  1. Brooke says:
    September 1, 2010 at 1:07 pm

    WOW! What a great post…thanks for sharing your sweet grandparents!

  2. Rebecca says:
    September 1, 2010 at 1:52 pm

    So great! The picture of the hands was my favorite!

  3. grandma sharon says:
    September 1, 2010 at 3:12 pm

    Wow Kalli, this is beautiful…You have the ability to make me laugh, make me cry, you are incredibly talented…keep going girl!

  4. Kate says:
    September 1, 2010 at 4:21 pm

    Love the post! I’m glad you could document grandma and grandpa. We do have some pretty cute grandparents.
    I can smell the apples in the cold storage now. Yum!

  5. Marianne says:
    September 1, 2010 at 4:28 pm

    Perfect. Love this. I would like copies of your pictures of them. Is that possible?

  6. Mardi says:
    September 1, 2010 at 4:47 pm

    Those pictures are the sweetest. Your grandma has great fingernails! I hope mine look like that when I’m her age.

  7. kristi says:
    September 1, 2010 at 8:49 pm

    sweet photographs kalli and great precious memories!

  8. Linda says:
    September 1, 2010 at 9:43 pm

    The pictures are fabulous. The memories are priceless. You are such a genius to get such great “poses.” I think even they will be pleased with the outcome.

  9. Lexi says:
    September 1, 2010 at 9:58 pm

    I don’t know what’s better – your pictures or your writing. Your passion definitely comes through in both.

  10. Denyse says:
    September 2, 2010 at 2:01 am

    What a beautiful post. I too had grandparents who were IN LOVE until they passed. I remember the stolen glances and kisses. Thanks for bringing back those fantastic memories.

  11. Karmen says:
    September 2, 2010 at 2:02 am

    Love it! Love them! Love you! Love our family! I would love pictures too!

  12. Kerstin says:
    September 2, 2010 at 2:51 am

    Stunning. Absolutely stunning!

  13. Paige Cahoon says:
    September 3, 2010 at 4:54 pm

    Kalli,
    Thank you for writing such sweet memories of Grandma and Grandpa. I put your link on our Stovall Blog, and I love love love the pictures! Thank you so much!
    We love you!
    Paige and Family.

  14. Morgan says:
    September 5, 2010 at 2:39 pm

    Kalli your blog was amazing. The pictures were great and the memories were right on for me as well. I love it. ~Morgan

  15. Jeanne says:
    September 6, 2010 at 6:57 pm

    Thanks for sharing these memories. You do such a great job. The pictures really captures who they are. Love them. If I could get copies of the pictures, as well as your story, I’d love it.

  16. Caroline says:
    September 6, 2010 at 7:18 pm

    wow, thanks kalli… this is very special!!!

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